So what's up with New Jersey?
Thanks to TV, the rest of the United States, (and probably a good part of the television viewing world) thinks that we speak with some kind of less-than-articulate accent, that we have big hair, and crave the material things in life. I've never even watched two of those popular New Jersey shows, but I know the stereotype. Ironically enough, when my family and I were at the Jersey shore two summers ago, we saw the iconic stars of that famous shore show. But I think somehow I better not post their pictures in my blog.
New Jersey used to feel like a an annex to New York. When I was growing up, I didn't get that NJ had its own shtick. All we had then was Bruce Springsteen, and we had so much of him, I lost interest. (I know, that is blasphemy, and I've come around to appreciate him a bit more.)
I've lived in Boston, North Carolina, Portland Oregon and San Francisco. I even lived in Israel for part of my Junior year in college. All of these places had their own personality. They were all great places to live. But I was always a visitor. New Jersey was my home. My parents were here, and for much of their lives, so were my grandparents. As much as I might like to put this state down, this happened to be my state.
What's up with New Jersey? Here's what works for me...
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| This is a dolphin swimming by. Really. |
- Great Beaches. Okay, my favorite is and always has been Seaside. With the honky tonk of the boardwalk of Seaside Heights and the spectacular waves, beaches and (usually) clean ocean of Seaside Park... this is where my family has gone for years. Everyone has their favorite spot on the Jersey Shore. This year, we saw dolphins swim right past us. And I have still never had better pizza than that on the boardwalk at Seaside Heights. (Not even in Italy.)
- Great Schools. I know that NJ cares about education... and although not every single town has outstanding schools, this was definitely a plus when we decided to move back here from San Francisco.
- Proximity to New York. Yup. Like most people I know, my husband and I don't go into NY nearly as often as one would think, and don't take advantage of nearly enough of the cultural options. But we COULD if we wanted to! Mostly we go to NY for rock concerts and work related things. And then we complain about the traffic. But, it's still there when we want it!
- Distance from New York. And here's the perfection of where we live. In our idyllic little town in Bergen County, you can almost pretend you are back in a simpler time. Neighbors know one another and stop to chat. Our worst traffic nightmare here is when school lets out and the crossing guard holds up the cars to let the kids cross.
- Happy Kids. As much as I wanted to get out, my kids seem to have been very happy growing up here. They loved this little town, and the freedom it afforded them to go out on their own as they got older. They loved the shore too, and being very close to their NJ grandparents. (Their other grandparents are in Maine, and this was always a very easy drive we made 3 times a year.)
- Prices. This is not worth moving here, but our gas prices are lower than the surrounding states, and you never have to pump it yourself. Also, no tax on clothing.
- Cory Booker. Mayor of Newark. Maybe Governor of NJ someday. I just wanted to mention him because I think he's all that.
- Tomatoes and Corn. The best when they are in season. Peaches too.
A few things that could be better?
- We could do better with our environmental policies and regulations. In my perfect little town we cannot drink the water because of high levels of arsenic. Hmm.
- The Blue Laws. Yes, we still have them. No shopping in Bergen County on Sunday. Don't get me started.
- Same Sex Marriage... not here, not yet. A same sex couple can get married in Iowa, but not in NJ? WHAT? DC, New York, Massachusetts... come on now NJ, it's our turn.
Am I missing anything?
Yes, Jon Bon Jovi. Sorry. I simply have nothing to say about him. Except this. Why does he pretend to be a cowboy?
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